Defining My Personal Success: What Success Means to Me
Introduction
Success is a subjective term. The definition of success varies from person to person, as success is something that is uniquely personal. For some, it may mean attaining a certain position or wealth. For others, it could be about the fulfillment of personal, spiritual, or social goals. In this blog post, we will explore what success means to me and how its definition has evolved over time.
What Success Means to Me
Success, for me, is not a one-size-fits-all definition. As someone who has experienced various ups and downs in life, I have learned to measure success on a larger scale. For me, success is not just about achieving monetary or professional goals; it is also about having peace of mind and being in harmony with oneself. I find myself successful when my actions align with my values and beliefs. I believe that success is holistic, meaning that it encompasses all aspects of my life, not just my career or wealth.
The Evolution of Success
When I was in my early 20s, success to me was all about the status quo. I chased after materialistic things, believed that reaching a certain professional designation would give me the happiness that I sought, and spent time and energy on things that didn’t matter. It wasn’t until I invested in self-reflection and began to look inward that I realized that these external factors alone didn’t bring long-term fulfillment or success.
The pandemic was a turning point in my life, and it caused me to reevaluate my entire approach to success. The shift began when I lost a family member to COVID-19. The event made me realize that life is short, and that I wanted to chase success on my own terms. Since then, I have put a stronger emphasis on personal growth, relationships, and mental well-being.
Examples of Personal Success
For me, a successful day is when I wake up feeling grateful, exercise daily, have productive work that aligns with my values, and spend quality time with friends and family. These small steps lead to a sense of long-term success and fulfillment.
Success isn’t just about being happy; it’s also about overcoming obstacles, learning from failures and mistakes, and growing as a person. Of course, achieving professional success is still important to me, but it is no longer my sole focus. Instead, I have found that a well-rounded approach, encompassing all aspects of my life, has increased my overall quality of life.
Conclusion
In conclusion, defining personal success is a journey that is unique to each person. What success means to me has evolved significantly over time and, I have learned that it is important to focus on the holistic aspects of my life. Materialistic things, money, and professional status were no longer the measures of success for me, and while success is not always tangible, it is worth chasing after. Remember, success is a journey, not a destination.
